Monday, November 11, 2013

Calling all lurkers. Come out and play!



So it's time for. .. Love our Lurkers day. Today, the bloggers in the community are going to do our best to coax our lovely lurkers to come out of hiding for the day and say "hi!"

Many of us tried to come up with a topic to pull the lurkers out of hiding! 


I talked to my husband, and he had an idea. He said he will put himself out there for this one. Today is the day he will answer any question you ask. 

So come on in, the water's fine. Go head and post a comment, lurkers! Let's have fun with this. Do you have a question for Jason? Please post in the comment section, and every question will be answered. 

Looking forward to hearing from you!


95 comments:

  1. Hello Jason and Jason's girl. I am visiting your blog for the first time so not really a lurker but I wanted to say hello. I have been poking around your blog and am quite enjoying it. As for a question for Jason, here goes, and please forgive me if you have covered this topic in the past. Jason, what merits a good girl spanking for your girl?

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    1. Hi, Michael. Looking forward to J's answer on this one. ;)

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  2. I don't have a question, but I just want to say hello. I'm new to your blog, so I'd also like to extend a belated welcome to the community. :)

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  3. Hi JG. Happy Lol day. I suppose I could fit into this category. I don't think I have ever commented her before but I have been a reader for some time now. I love your blog and I am glad you here sharing this journey with us. Much love to you.

    xo

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    1. Bonnie, thank you. Your blog was instrumental in me figuring out my own needs and desire...so I wanted to thank you for your blog too. I'm honored to be part of the community. :)

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  4. Hi to the pair of you, I hope you have a great LOL day.
    love Jan.xx.

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  5. Hi JG :) I'm probably one of your lurkers, I read here a lot but don't think I've ever left a comment, so here it goes * waves hello*

    Hugs x

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  6. Hello Jason and girl.....I love to read your blog!

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    1. Thanks and batck atcha (sorry I'm so late!).

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  8. JG! You are one of a kind my friend and I along with many are happy you decided to start blogging. You've made quite a splash in 6 months! I always enjoy coming and reading here and have commented several times, so I guess I'm not a Lurker... but I do have a questions for Jason :)
    Jason, please come in to The DD Chat Room with your wonderful wife sometime?
    Ok, so it's kind of a question and kind of a plea lol
    We'd enjoy getting to know you better Jason

    Happy LOL Day Jason & JG!
    # MrBBSpanker

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    1. Hey, Mrbb. :) Thank you for your kind words! Maybe over time we can wear him down. ;)

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  9. Hi Jason and his girl,

    Happy LOL 8 day! I'm a regular visitor to your blog, and always enjoy your posts.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hi, Hermione, Thank you, and I'm glad you came by!

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  10. Happy LOL day JG! Hm a question for Jason? I'm reading blogs as i'm getting ready for work this morning, so my brain isn't quite working yet, but if I think of one, i'll come back and ask. :)

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  11. I don't really have a question but I do LOVE your blog, but you know that! Happy LOL 8!!!
    xo
    love
    sara

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    1. You're a sweetie, Sara. Thanks! I love yours, too! I was so happy to see you come back to blogland.

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  12. I suppose I'm a lurker since I usually send comments by pm. Love the blog! No question for Jason--I'm too afraid to ask lol.

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    1. You always crack me up. He's not scary! Ok...maybe a little! LOL

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  13. No questions for Jason - glad you're here. Love the dual posts you do with Bob.

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    1. Thanks, Leigh. Those posts are fun to do. :)

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  14. Happy LOL Day, JG! :) Here's question for you both, when did you decide to de-lurk?

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    1. Hi Riley. Thanks for stopping by. I de-lurked when I started blogging (was too scared before) and Jason is still very much enjoying lurker status!

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  15. Hi Jason's Girl! Happy LOL Day and thank you for all you contribute both to blogland and the Learning Domestic Discipline forums!

    We're looking forward to continuing to get to know you.

    -Clint and Chelsea
    Learning Domestic Discipline

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    1. Thanks, Clint and Chelsea. That was such a nice comment. Thanks for stopping in. :)

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  16. Hi to both of you and Happy LOL. Enjoy reading your blog.

    Ms Kate

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  17. Happy LOL Day to you both! Ok here's my question. We talk a lot about what we ladies get from ttwd. What do you like the best about it? Thanks for answering questions. :)

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    1. Hi, Zoe! Good question. I look forward to his answer on this one. :)

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  18. Happy LOL Day to both of you! I could ask a DD question but I'm sure you'll get a lot of those. So my question is - what do you eat for breakfast? :D

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  19. Happy LoL Day! My question is... What is the one thing you wish she'd never cook again? And since I always cheat... what is the best thing she makes?

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  20. JGirl - HAPPY LOL DAY! I have thoroughly enjoyed many of your posts.

    For Jason: Your wife commented on my blog here: http://newmarriagedynamic.blogspot.com/2013/10/glorious-junk-in-trunk.html - it sounds like you are a lover of your wife's ass, as I am of my wife's. I've been an 'ass-man' for many years now. DD only increases this interest, don't you think?

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    1. Dude, I so thought you were gonna get me in trouble with this comment! Curious what J will say about it... lol

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  21. Hi JGirl - I've been reading your blog for quite some time now and love it. Thank you so much for your sharing your joys and lows. It gives me hope that one day I'll gather enough courage to approach my husband. I tried once before and it flopped, so...here's to wishing for someday!

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    1. Best of luck, Laurel. If ever you want to talk about it, drop me a line. Thanks for stopping by.

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  22. Hey jg I love your blog and you write so well and I have learned a lot from u and j and Ty you both. I do have a question for j. What makes a good dom and how did u learn to do warm ups

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    1. You're a sweetie, thank you. Love your questions. Interested to see what J says. ;)

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  23. Hello,

    Happy LOL Day to you both.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  24. Do we still get to ask a question if we're not a lurker? ;) Hi Jason, hope you have fun with the questions. :) And thank you for the blog, I love reading it, JGirl. Happy LOL day! :)

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    1. Ask away. :) Thanks, Es May. I love yours too. I am way behind and need to catch up on reading!

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  25. Hi JG
    I get your blogs via email and love them so much I share them with my husband. Thanks for sharing your lives with us.
    Rhonda

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    1. I'm so glad you enjoy them, Rhonda. It's comments like this that make me want to keep on writing (even when the mean people keep coming). Thank you.

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  26. Hello:) Jason, what's your favorite implement to use and why?

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  27. Lurker anonymous here, firstly I love your blog :-) I'm wanting to approach my man with DD so I guess I'd ask Jason what advice he'd give a man on starting this journey and how to be 'gentle but firm'? Thanks so much xx

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    1. Thank you! Good question. That gentle but firm is so key. Good luck!

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  28. Waving "hi" from the background, enjoying my lurker status. Lol. I truly love your blog!

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  29. Happy lol day to both of u really enjoy ur blog

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  30. I'm not a lurker and I don't have a question, I just wanted to say Happy LOL Day! :)

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    1. Hi, Grace! I'm sorry I didn't make it to your blog (or many many others either). Thanks for stopping by. I'll come by soon!

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  31. Hi! I understand the concept of DD, but can't see it happening in my house. Been married 49 years today--we are more in love than ever. My question for Jason is: Who punishes the punisher? What happens when you do something wrong? Thanks for your blog--as far as I can tell, I haven't seen any nude pics or bad language. Thanks too, for that.
    New lurker.

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    1. Hello, New lurker. :) Wow, 49 years. Congrats! That is a very good question.

      I do put sexy pics up but try to keep them in good taste and I think I'd get spanked for the bad language. Just kidding. ;)

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  32. Hi! I love your blog! I feel like i can relate to you so much, and i love that you post so frequently so i stop by here often. I've slowly been introducing spanking to my boyfriend though only sexual and play. So jason, what would you say is the best way to introduce the punishment element into it? Like what's the best way to start a conversation about it that won't freak him out? Thanks :)

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    1. Thanks for stopping by. We started out with erotic spanking, too. I'm sure Jason has some good tips. :)

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  33. Hello Jason's Girl and Jason
    Great blog I really love reading here.
    Can Jason explain how he as the HOH feels on the differences between speaking for punishment and spanking for other reasons.
    Janey

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  34. Hello! I'm not sure I'm a lurker because I have commented before but I did want to tell you that I really appreciate how honest you are about it all. I am not in the lifestyle day to day because my Dom and I do not live together and can only see each other once or twice a month. We are madly in love though and speak everyday sometimes for hours. Jason, could you give us advice on how to keep me in my submissive mindset even when at a distance? It is difficult for me and I am sometimes disrespectful over the phone and in texts. I also break many of our rules as time passes and I do not see him. I try but I fail to keep myself in the correct mindset. He punishes me when we see each other but it doesn't see, to be enough. Any advice?

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    1. Hello! Thanks for stopping by. I'm glad you asked the question. That is tricky for sure. I admire those that practice long distance DS. Have you stopped by Grace's blog "With Me, Without Me?" She is in a similar situation and has some good tips. I hope Jason can answer as well. Best of luck to you!

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  35. I have left one comment here a million moons ago, I think it was on one of your addressing the public why you/we do ttwd. I do read here often though. Not sure what that makes me. More lurker than not I'd suppose.

    No question, just a hi and thanks for stopping by.
    willie

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    1. Hey girl. Always nice to see your pretty face. :D

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  37. Happy LOL day. I have a question: What would you add to JGirl's post on How to Give a Good Girl Spanking?

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    1. Hope he answers it =) and second question: why is JGirl up at 3:45 AM? (I say as I got out of bed at 6:30 this morning).

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    2. LOL He says he will, but hasn't gotten to them yet.

      And I wasn't really up that early, for some reason I dont' have my blog on EST! lol

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  38. Wanted to de- lurk and say Happy LOL day!

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  39. Happy LOL Day! Love your insight JG! :)

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  40. I realize this may be a tough question for Jason to honestly answer, but I'm dying to know. Have you ever felt bad about a spanking you administered? For example, have you ever thought you were a little too hard on her, or the punishment was too severe for the infraction? - "Lurker" Jenny

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    1. Good question, Jenny. Definitely there's a lot of trial and error involved at times.

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  41. I don't have a question but just wanted you to know I know you already do, how much Lee & I both love your blog.
    love,
    honey

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  42. So I don't know much dds, but I had a question for you guys cause I love reading your blog and am definitely a lurker: how did you know you needed it and do you consider it similar or different completely to a master/sub relationship? I find myself interested in elements of both. I am in a relationship where I know my partner will be interested in either, even just playfully in the bedroom. If this is a true need or desire for me, should I accept the fact it will never happen?

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    1. Hey there, thanks for your question. I hope we can give you some good feedback. "How did you know you needed it" is a question I've been wanting to write about for ages, so maybe I'll do a separate post on that one alone, too. Thanks!

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  43. Hi! I know I'm a little late today but I still wanted to stop by and say Hi! I read your blog frequently. I think I may have commented once or twice but I wanted to take this opportunity to say how much I appreciate your wonderful writing and the time you spend sharing your story. Thank you for sharing so many details of your private life. I find it very helpful and inspiring.

    Thanks!
    Katie

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    1. I'm so glad to hear that, Katie. Thanks for stopping by!

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  44. Dear readers, a big
    THANK YOU!! This was so fun hearing from all of you! Jason is going to do a separate post answering all your questions. Stay tuned this weekend!

    JGirl

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  45. Jason, I just want to know if you ever think you are feeding your wife's obvious mental problems by giving into her need to be hit and if you ever consider the idea that a bigger man would actually man up and go get her some psychiatric help so that she can mature?

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    1. I was wondering when the mean kids were gonna come out and play. Eager to see my husband's answer to this one for sure. ;)

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  46. **We haven't forgotten! Jason hasn't had time to write all the replies yet, but they are coming! **

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  47. Ok! I am quite the lurker but am fairly new to dd. We are about 2 months in. I have spent the last 5 days reading your posts from the beginning! You are amazing at getting your words out! I feel like I am living your life in the beginning of your posts and hope to get to where you are now :)
    Thank you so much for sharing your story!

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